This past week I was told by someone who I looked up to that my standards for a guy are too high! I was absolutely baffled. I have always heard that we need to never lower our standards because we want someone who is worthy of having us. This person told me that it didn't matter and I should go into a relationship with the goal of changing the other person and "molding"them.
This frustrated me to tears! How can I do that? There is NO way I would want that kind of relationship!
I am such a romantic at heart and maybe that is part of my delay in finding the right person, but I have standards and I do not believe them to be impractical or impossible. I am by no means looking for the perfect guy, but I am looking for someone who inspires me to be better and vice versa. I want someone who believes as I do and who is a genuinely good, kind guy. This is what I want and I will not be swayed to lower my standards.
I deserve to be happy with the person I chose to be with for eternity !
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